DON'T Give SEX a Bad Name

Have you watched these movies?

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS



No Strings Attached



Unofficially Yours



To those who have not watched yet, these movies tackle about a strange relationship - a relationship that is based on SEX. Typically one of the characters in the story is scared of entering a serious relationship and be committed.  This is the reason the characters decided to restrict their relationship to just having sex. Eventually one of the characters would fall in love, and this would be the start of the twist of the story.

A good story as it may sound, but this kind of movies fail to tackle the other side of the story. What if the other won't fall for the other? What if one of the characters got unexpected pregnancy? What would happen if one of them suddenly want other sexual partner?


THE TRUE MEANING OF SEX

Media is now giving a different definition of sex, very far from its true origin, very far from how God created it.

Sex is beautiful.
Sex is wonderful.
Sex is a gift.
Because God created sex.

However, just like any other creation of God, sex, if not used for its pure purpose, it can be a poison.

God loves great sex.But the world has taken it and used for ugly purpose.

Because of the kinds of movies mentioned above, the world might think that the most pleasurable sex are among caused by premarital sex, casual sex and "friends with benefits "sex. Not only that, movies like No Other Woman, The Mistress, A Secret Affair arise causing the world to perceive sex caused by infidelity exciting and thrilling.

But the truth is:
Casual sex is ugly.
Premarital sex is ugly.
Sex caused by infidelity is ugly.
These are ugly sex.

Isn't it premarital sex stealing away the dreams of young people because of unplanned pregnancies and existence of Sexually transmitted disease?

Ugly sex distorts the way people look at themselves and the way they look at other people. It steals away the future of new generation.

Sean Stewart is the youngest father in the world. He is 12 years old and he became the youngest father when his 16 year old girlfriend gave birth to a baby boy.

Babies are angels and they are considered as blessings. But it would be best if they come to people at the right age. A 12 year old boy should be doing something else and not engaging to sex. He is supposed to play, study, building dreams  for his future. He should be having fun with friends, with family, with life. He is too young to face the responsibility of a father. The same goes with his 16 year old girlfriend.

Ugly sex is destroying dreams, marriages, family, and relationships.

Sex is not just a physical exchange of bodily fluid. It is also en exchange of spirits.When you are having sex with someone, you are giving part of your soul and spirit to the other person.

Would you just allow yourself give part of your soul and spirit to a stranger?or to a boyfriend who can leave you at any moment?

Sex is sacred.
Use it for its divine purpose.
Do it for love. 
Not for fun.


Your Online Life Coach,
Maya